Resiliency is the ability to bounce back – to recover, to persevere, no matter what. It’s an enviable quality and one we don’t understand well. Kids grow up in a screwed up family – one gets tough, the other gets hurt. Couples get divorced – one partner thrives, while the other flails. A company lays [...]
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Coveted Qualities, or, What Plants Can Teach Us
Posted in Gardening, Random Thoughts, tagged Clematis armandii, favorite plants, lessons from plants, resilience on April 13, 2012 | 1 Comment »
Peas will you be my Valentine?
Posted in Gardening, tagged DIY trellis, peas on valentine's day, plant on valentine's day, twine trellis on February 21, 2012 | 4 Comments »
Years ago, when I was living in Knoxville, Tennessee, I arrived at the office the Monday after February 14 to be greeted with the friendly question, “So did y’all get your peas in this weekend?” Um – Peas? In February? Kimmy, our department secretary, whose mother raised bees in a garden so productive people whispered [...]
My new favorite plant
Posted in Gardening, tagged gratitude, invincible summer, Mexican bush marigold, optimism, Tagetes lemmonii on December 27, 2011 | 1 Comment »
This is my new favorite plant. It is Tagetes lemmonii, commonly known as the Mexican Bush Marigold. I love it because it is so unlike me, with many qualities I aspire to but don’t necessarily achieve. One of these is endless optimism. This one went into the ground at the end of the summer [...]
Candles of gratitude
Posted in Gardening, Random Thoughts, tagged fall bouquet, Thanksgiving, winter solstice on November 24, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
These are the dark times. A month from now, we’ll reach the winter solstice, when the world will start getting lighter again, which means it’s eight long weeks to get back to where we are now, which is dark. And then there’s my Keeping the wolves at bay issue – January 4th will be the 10th [...]
Holiday decor, northern California style
Posted in Designing, Gardening, tagged holiday decor, make a wreath, northern California, swag, wreath on November 19, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Here in northern California, fall looks different than it does in the storybooks. We don’t have snow. We don’t have holly. We don’t have pine trees. What we DO have is redwood trees – and, courtesy of the tree trimming we had done recently, lots and lots of redwood branches. We also have flowers. Yes, [...]


